Saturday, November 20, 2004

It's been a ridiculously long time since I bothered to post on here. I do have another blog, so I'm mostly on that one. It's more of a community there, not just individual blogs. But I needed to vent here, because I don't want my friends to read this. Not yet, anyways.

So the relationship I've talked about before on this blog is over. Has been for like...7 months. And that's a very good thing, believe me. After we'd been broken up for about a month, he asked if he could borrow some money (a substantial amount, but I wasn't hurting for money, so I said yes.) I figured that since he had a full time job, he'd be able to pay me back by the end of summer. He didn't. I was patient with him, and i didn't get pushy about it, because that obviously wasn't going to get me anywhere. So finally on Thursday, I asked if the other $125 was ever going to be paid. He says he dropped off a cheque at my work and that it had been cashed at a TD bank (my bank). I simply said that if that was the case, it wasn't me who cashed it, because I had never received the cheque. But now, apparently, I'm nuts for wanting my money back, to the point that his new girlfriend has changed her MSN name to "Why do you hold on? Do you like hurting people?" See, the funny thing is that I never thought that the money thing was anyone else's business but mine and his. Sure, people know about it, but when it comes down to it being dealt with, that's a two person deal. So why am I the one being attacked here? I have NO idea. But I feel like I made a mistake for doing something nice for someone. And that's not fair at all.